Saturday, November 30, 2013

Taking too many photos of your kids is a BAD thing, warn experts

think it is to LATE !!!     we got generations of me,me Me ME,ME <ME  !!! just look at ass~book   ..here's me waking up .here's me looking left ..... right ,up ,down  over here ,over there ,look at the soda i just bought ..i just ate this ,that or looky,looky at what i just made :O  ....look at the pic i just took of an old Lady falling down .......what y didn't i try & help her ?  WTF    my ..pic  .....here's my brat being born looky ,looky ...here IT is  at 1 min 2 sec old     ....look it closed it's eyes for the very 1 st time  oh oh ah it's turning it's head to the left for the 1 st time  look .look it moved it's right leg ...for the 1 st time  & "these" fucking" kooks are gonna "post" this shit ....forever lol    this "generation"   wont EVEN fucking do ANYTHING ..until the cam's ...setup  ..... these shallow fucks hug you wit one arm & the other hand has a cam in it .....so "they" can say looky ,looky at ME ...hugging  ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh    ohhhhhhhhhhh  um so genu~ain't    ..just get an x~Box   & ask billy if he'll play back EVERY~thin   that's goes on in your living room ,bed room ,kitchen  out house lol       .....    ah oh yea "iT"  only cums on if you say x~box  on   LMMFAO (laughing my motherfucking ass off )  &  the NSA "only"  spy's on yer phone,cell.text.email ,fax etc.etc,etc.   when you "use"   it  ?     we wont even mention the street cam's ,biz cam's ,store cam's ...lol fucking drones . "spy" sat's  :o     fuck me!  um confused which is the God that ..."spy's "   & which 1  is the 1  of Love  :o   let's "ask" billy  ...he's doing gods work  lol           here wait let me take a pic of this ..so i can "post" it      

Taking too many photos of your kids is a BAD thing, warn experts

  • Experts warn parents against snapping too many moments of their children being cute
  • Kids might feel like they're 'in the center of the universe' making them feel 'overly important'
  • It could also make them feel less important and self-critical
By Daily Mail Reporter
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Parents taking too many pictures of their children are being warned that it can be detrimental to their development as it might make them feel ‘overly important’.
As the holiday season cranks into gear, experts are saying that snapping too many moments to create those cherished long-lasting memories can be too much of a good thing.
Some toddlers are known to grab their parents’ smartphones and snap their own ‘selfies’, while other children give creative direction and ask their parents to take pictures of them ‘being cute’.
Snapshot: Every parent loves taking pictures of their children, but experts say they should try to do it less as they otherwise become too self-conscious and aware
Snapshot: Every parent loves taking pictures of their children, but experts say they should try to do it less as they otherwise become too self-conscious and aware
‘We need to keep track of what values we are communicating by taking the picture and posting and distributing the picture,’ says Judith Myers-Walls, a professor emeritus of human development and family studies at Purdue University.
‘Are you taking a picture of the child and not as a family as a whole? They might think they are the center of the universe,’ she tells Today Moms.
 

People should not stop taking photos of their children, as long as it is done mindfully, she said.
Myers-Walls says parents should encourage their children to use cameras to record images they think illustrate the family or the holidays, instead of letting them take pictures of only themselves.

Taking pictures: Experts warn parents against snapping too many moments of their children and say they should instead take pictures of the whole family to show the importance of unity
Taking pictures: Experts warn parents against snapping too many moments of their children and say they should instead take pictures of the whole family to show the importance of unity


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Warning to parents: Judith Myers-Walls, left, a professor emeritus of human development and family studies at Purdue University, says parents taking too many photos of their children can make them feel overly important. Alain Morin, right, an associate psychology professor at Mount Royal University in Calgary, Alberta, says it could also make children feel more self-conscious and unnecessarily critical of their looks, and who they are

This allows the children to turn the focus away from themselves and onto the family.
‘I think it’s important to decide when taking the photo: what’s the purpose? Is this to help my memory of something; is this to play around and be silly; is this to communicate? What I am communicating to whom?’
She also recommends parents consider hiring a professional photographer to take family photos, which highlight that each family member plays an important role.
Alain Morin, an associate psychology professor at Mount Royal University in Calgary, Alberta, says research finds that taking too many photos creates other problems.
The use of ¿self-focusing stimuli¿, such as a mirror, picture or camera, could make the children feel more self-conscious about their looks
The use of ¿self-focusing stimuli¿, such as a mirror, picture or camera, could make the children feel more self-conscious about their looks

He says the use of ‘self-focusing stimuli’, such as a mirror, picture or camera, could make the children feel more self-conscious about their looks.
‘And, you think about your shortcomings,’ he tells Today Moms.
'When people are exceedingly self-focused, they self-critique a lot and feel bad a lot.'
But a lot of photos isn’t always a bad thing, according to Morin, as they can help create stronger memories and give people a better sense of who they are. 

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